The gap in my blog posts recently was due to a trip to Dubai for my cousin’s wedding. It was a very enlightening trip simply because, before, my perspective of Dubai was mired only in its total absorption in extravagance and overt luxury. I couldn’t see anything else. Every trip there, work or otherwise had me rolling my eyes over eating food and shopping. There’s only so much you can do… and the heat kind of limits doing anything outside.
So anyway, let’s get to the list…
- Capitalism on Steroids – Everywhere… Luxury, Opulence and extravagance from the $30m licence plates to the upturned noses. You cannot avoid the show of wealth and while it’s cool to gawk at the Lamborghini’s, Bentley’s, Rolls Royce’s, Muscle Cars, etc. After a while it infects you. It’s a place for the insanely wealthy who want to show it and the those who aren’t insanely wealthy but aspire to be… or at least in its presence. Maybe it would rub off on them like cheap perfume.
- No Soul – You feel the fake. The country did come up from nowhere, with nothing nad now hitting records for what? Biggest building, biggest light show on the biggest building, etc. etc. They’re trying too hard man and as with all shows of wealth you can sense that something fundamental is missing. You see it in the people too ,especially the expensive places… the disdain for everyone else, how they treat anyone who doesn’t live on their level.
- Growth for the Sake of Growth – The place is HUGE. It reminds me of Joburg it’s so big. Like it takes you at least a half hour from place to place and you’re generally surrounded by skyscrapers. On this last trip, I’ve heard it seems the same problem like back in 2008, where contractors up and disappeared might be happening again. There is one hell of a lot of property in Dubai and I’m not sure there are enough people or businesses to fill up that space. All of this growth also means it’s being built on cheap labour with dodgy labour practices. It’s a shit show all the way through.
“Growth for the sake of growth is the ideology of a cancer cell.” – Edward Abbey
- The Desert – My cousin took me to the desert with a couple of friends, a place called “Maliha”. We stayed up till like 3.30am with a camp fire, talking and listening to music and drinking chai. It was amazing. The vastness of the desert and the stars makes it so much easier to take breath and introspect. Think about Life and your place in it. Answer all the big questions for yourself. Making new friends in such an isolated place is also very easy.
- The Normal People – Away from the cars driving past willing you to look at them with your mouth open. There are normal, everyday people in Dubai just trying to live their lives and get by. But when you’re going there on holiday you don’t get to see it. It’s the guys who make karak chai on the corner, the local cafeteria’s making shawarma, the others getting by day to day in corporate jobs sending money back to families in other countries. I was looking for a soul to Dubai, these people are it. They make Dubai what it is, both the extravagant and the quotidian.
- Family – This is specific to my time their recently where I got to spend time with my cousins who I’ve only seen off and on for short periods and over decades. I’m also like 10 years older than all of them, so I got to really bond with them at an age where we’re more or less on the same level. That and spending time with my aunt and getting involved with helping set up all the wedding bits ( as family does) was a really awesome experience.