F**k Indian Durban, Part 2
A continuation from my previous post on the same subject.
I have had to deal with yet another phenomenon of the gossip/blabber-mouth/immature personages who invade every space and infect it, in this ever-increasing choke-hold of the Indian community in Durban. Maybe I should be more specific and tie it down to the Muslim Indian Community here, but I’m sure it’s all over the place.
I can’t believe someone around mid-twenties would be able to spread such absolute shit like this, and to the detriment of another human being’s reputation. What I can’t understand is this, doesn’t the new generation see through all the crap and try to better themselves and their communities instead of just regurgitate the ugly old habits of the previous generation? What ever happened to rebellion and questioning things and moving forward?
All I see in this community is the spreading of the same shit via new technology… unlike the old days when this used to happen through kitchen windows and in women’s circles, the barriers have been shattered and now boys and girls across age ranges are becoming purveyors of a culture of back-biting, slander and bitchiness using Web 2.0 Technology.
I have managed from the previous post to ignore such things and try and correct them whenever I can, but when people’s reputations get tarnished by information you have provided in privacy… and you have to hear about it from 3rd an 4th parties…. That is unforgivable. But then again, how could I be so naive to expect anything else from this cultural habit which I’ve seen fester and contaminate lives as soon as I set foot here.
I keep thinking… what would it take for these people to see what they’re actually doing? and how absolutely full of shit it is and the damages it causes and the lives it leaves in ruins… divorces, family feuds, etc. all stem from this same problem… A culture of talking behind other people’s backs, having a one-up-manship on everyone else, My family/clan/caste is better than yours, doing the other man down.
Fuck them.
yeah man, fu*ck em, You know i find the people who backbite and spread rumous are actually doing it cos they are INSECURE about themselves.. Though… if you let it bother you it means they got to you.
Water of a ducks back bro!
Keep well :)
I agree Ismail, in terms of changing things, I am going to approach the offending idiot who caused this and let him know. Sometimes I trust too much,a bad move in Durbs.
Peace.
O man you’ve been hit with one of them
*Sigh* i feel for you…some how i have managed so far to ignore these idiots but i’m sure sooner or later it’ll catch up with me as well…
o well F^%K them.
if you had lived in India among muslims, christians or hundus or any other community, they have the same problem. Its not everyone is bad everywhere. there are sensible people in every community. One must learn to appreciate that. If someone tries to talk to you which is not quite acceptable to you, you better tell them that you dont want to hear it anymore. Shut them up. I do that usually though I am perceived to be rude. But what you are doing in this blog is also gossip. it’s just a waste of time. Indeed I know, it’s a waste of time to write this comment too. But I am really fuckin bored…so wasting time on this sh** ty stuffs…
After a while you stop trying dude. There’s just too many of them thinking the same narrow-minded way.